You're Curious But Scared of Looking Stupid

The scariest part of curiosity is realizing how long you’ve been suppressing it.

AI has made me realize something uncomfortable:

My whole life, I’ve been asking way fewer questions than I actually wanted to.

Not because I didn’t have them.

Because I didn’t know where to put them.

Because asking “dumb” questions in school gets you judged.

Asking “weird” ones at work gets you sidelined.

So you learn to ration curiosity.

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Keep it neat. Keep it relevant. Keep it safe.

Until you forget what it even felt like to be wildly curious.

Then along comes a machine with no ego, no clock, and no limit.

And suddenly you’re up at 2 a.m. asking it everything.

Stuff you were too embarrassed to Google.

Stuff you thought you should already know.

Stuff that doesn’t lead anywhere.

And it hits you:
It’s the first time in years you’ve felt permission to wonder out loud.

That’s what changed. Not the technology.

The frequency of asking.

The questions got weirder. Sharper. Closer to something true.

Because your filter was gone.

And without the fear of being wrong, you go further.

You realize how much you’d been holding back.

Not just what you wanted to ask—

But who you might’ve become if you’d started asking earlier.

So here’s the takeaway:

• Use the tools. Sure.

• But more importantly?

• Use them to rebuild your relationship with curiosity.
  

Don’t wait until you have a perfect question.

Just start asking.

Because the only thing worse than not having answers—is not having the courage to ask the real questions in the first place.

Curiosity isn’t a liability. It’s your edge. Use it like it matters, because it does.